John B. Marek is a writer, farmer, outdoorsman and recovering economic developer. You can find his books at johnbmarek.com.
Under any circumstances, choosing a church can feel like a daunting task, but for newcomers to a rural area the typical issues of theological alignment and worship style are often magnified by a lack of variety. There are a half-dozen churches within 10 miles of my off-grid homestead in the North Carolina mountains, two within walking distance, and they are all Baptist. In fact, I’m not even sure where the nearest non-Baptist church is located. The nearest Moravian church is 30 miles away.
Beyond theological alignment, one of the critical considerations in choosing a rural church is size: big church or small church? Both offer unique advantages and challenges, and the best choice ultimately depends on what you’re looking for in a spiritual community.
Although rural churches naturally tend to be on the smaller side, the difference in size can still be quite pronounced, ranging from a few dozen to a few hundred congregants. Larger churches often have extensive ministries catering to diverse interests and needs, from youth groups to singles groups to specific support groups.
Rural churches often have deep roots in the community and a distinct character. Although they are likely bound by very similar theological underpinnings, two Baptist churches a mile apart may have completely different worship styles, resident cultures and acceptance of outsiders. Instead of searching for a specific denomination, explore what’s available locally and accept that you may need to be flexible. Talk to your neighbors, visit local stores or check community bulletin boards. You might discover a hidden gem with a welcoming atmosphere and values that resonate with you.
Big churches often have dedicated worship teams, impressive music programs and engaging speakers, offering a vibrant and stimulating worship experience. Due to their size, large churches may have more resources for outreach, missions and community involvement, allowing for deeper engagement with social issues.
On the other hand, it can be easy to feel lost in the crowd at a large church, making it more difficult to build personal connections with other members and pastors. Also, larger churches often have complex organizational structures, making it harder to find your place and get involved in meaningful ways.
Smaller churches foster a more intimate atmosphere, allowing for closer relationships and greater support among members. Pastors and leaders in small churches often have more time and ability to personally connect with and mentor individuals, and their streamlined structure can make it easier to get involved in leadership roles and participate in decision-making.
However, smaller churches may have fewer ministries and programs, potentially limiting options for those with specific interests, and the close-knit nature of small churches can lead to feeling pressured to participate in activities or conform to certain social norms.
Ultimately, your choice of a rural church is a personal one. Consider your priorities, personality and desired level of involvement when making your decision. Remember, there’s no single “right” answer – the most important thing is finding a spiritual community where you feel welcomed, supported and able to grow in your faith.